The Adventures of Rex & Magpie

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新年快乐!(Xīnnián kuàilè!) (Happy New Year!)

Dear Family and Friends,

The Chinese New Year is upon us. If you’re curious about Chinese New Year, I found a great article that sums it all quite nicely (better than I could), so be sure to check out how Chinese New Year works.

I’ve had a three-week break from work for the holiday. The first week I went to Hong Kong for getting a new work visa, which was productive and relatively painless. The second week has been very chill, sleeping in, watching Prison Break and Freaks and Geeks, getting to hang out with a visiting friend; however it’s ending on a very sad note.

Our baby, our rabbit, Bunners, passed away last night. He had been sick for about a day. Eric and I are ignorant on proper rabbit care, but we tried our best to nurse him back to health. We made plans to get to our veterinarian, but it just wasn’t soon enough. We were very blessed to have his presence for the past month. He was so sweet and playful. Eric said the most sincere prayer for Bunners last night. We loved him very much, and I hope he knew it.

This morning, I didn’t want to do ANYTHING today. Eric brought home breakfast, and then insisted that I would feel better if I showered up and went out for lunch. The only thing I wanted was donuts and coffee (so healthy, I know). Let me share my subsequent Facebook post so that you may know what happened next:

After 8 months of his protesting that we’d get lost, Eric finally conceded to my request to take our elevator to the basement of which I had postulated (for 8 months!) that it would be much easier to get to the mall (of which we live above). NEWS FLASH: I WAS RIGHT! We are directly above (ok, 24 floors above) Papa John’s, Dunkin’ Donuts, Dairy Queen, AND Subway, in addition to grocery shopping and other various money-spending opportunities in one of the poshest malls in the city. Now, whenever we want to go to the mall, we don’t even have to leave the building. Again, I must repeat that it took us 8 months to get to this point.

I definitely had to get in my 15 minutes of ribbing and teasing him. I’m thankful for the silliness because we needed the laughing. Eric is an amazing tower of strength for our little family, comforting me, but I know he is saddened as well.

Squatty Bottoms

A few weeks ago, I wanted to share about one of our experiences here in China on Facebook — the eastern toilet. My western laowai colleagues taught me the term “squatty potty” for one has to squat low to the ground to use the potty. I must have had a misfiring between my brain and my typing fingers because I typed “squatty bottoms” instead, and of course Eric won’t let me forget it (He thought it was stinkin’ cute). Anyways, until you’ve had to use one, you really have no idea. I found this article, How to Use a Squat Toilet in China, to be helpful in summarizing the experience. The Squat Toilet can also be informative.

Once I referred to “squatty potty” in a conversation with my students, and they roared in laughter. The Chinese opinion of western toilets is that they are unsanitary. A friend once told me that the Chinese word translates to something akin to horse bucket (if I am remembering correctly). There have been times that I have gone into a W.C. with a western toilet only to find footprints on the seat. The majority consensus here is that the seated toilets are unsanitary because you sit on them, so they will do anything to avoid actually having to sit on them, which of course leaves the toilet filthy and disgusting for anyone who would prefer to actually sit on it.

That being said, I felt I had truly mastered the squatty potty when I was able to use one with a 30-lbs backpack on my back while in a stall at a train station. Success!

Lots of love,
Maggie (and Eric… he’s napping)

Back in Hong Kong!

Dear family & friends,

I made a solo trip to Hong Kong for my work visa. My second time in this city and I am yet again impressed. While I don’t know if I’d be happy living here, I definitely enjoy visiting. Perhaps someday I’ll be able to stay for longer than 24 hours.

Never in my life did I think I’d be able to say that I have made not one but two turnaround trips to Hong Kong. (Nor did I ever think that I would live in China.)

I love where the universe has brought me. (Thank you!)

Lots of love,
Maggie

Send us a card!

Hey folks! We miss you. Sporadic visits to Facebook just isn’t enough! Please feel free to send us cards, letters, pictures, candies, new shoes, etc. Our mailing address is…

Maggie Bell
C/O ESLI
32 Jing San Rd, Cai Fu Guang Chang, Building B 3rd Floor

Zhengzhou 450008
Henan Province
People’s Republic of China

Lots of Love,
Maggie and Eric

Change of Plans!

Dear Family and Friends,

So… we’re not returning to America yet. This past week has been a rollercoaster, and I’m sure you want all the interesting details. Unfortunately, there are some things that we are just going to have to keep private for now. Have no fear! We are safe and sound in China. Maggie is renewing her contract with her school, and Eric will work on getting his TEFL certificate. The universe wouldn’t provide us with more than we could handle, so we are looking forward to this New Year with joyful anticipation.

Many apologies to you hoping to see us this year. At least there are better methods for communication now than there were even 20 years ago.

We hope to send out Chinese New Year cards, so please make sure that we have your address! Maggie created a private online survey for address collection at the following link. This page inputs directly into a private spreadsheet. If you are uncomfortable submitting such information via a weblink, please feel free to email it to us (maggiesulu (at) yahoo (dot) com).

https://skydrive.live.com/redir?page=survey&resid=2D81465D20821B4C!116&authkey=!AIZi4HNUtIpLW4I
(shortened: http://sdrv.ms/UUD43K)

Lots of Love,
Eric and Maggie

Happy New Year!

Dear family and friends,

We’re a bit belated, but "Merry Christmas!" Also, not quite as belated, "Happy New Year!"

Eric and I are very excited because we will be returning to America NEXT WEEK! Our time in Zhengzhou is coming to an end. It has been a wonderful, magical, educational experience. We have met and developed relationships with some amazing and remarkable people. I’m so thankful that in this modern age we will be able to easily stay in contact with all of them. We are planning a trip back to China (for the major touristy stuff that we weren’t able to accomplish while living here) later in the year.

2013 is going to be another year filled with excitement and adventure. We hope you’ll be able to join us on the ride.

Lots of Love,
Maggie and Eric

P.S. After I return to California, I plan on writing some China-retrospective posts (you know, ones that I should have written while I was here, but didn’t).

Snow Day!

Dear family and friends,

Zhengzhou had a snow day! Just one day. It snowed for most of the daylight hours, then at nightfall the city felt like a combination of calm and eerie — a view akin to nuclear fallout. It was neat. Maggie isn’t used to snow days, so her walk home from work took a bit longer than usual. (Enjoy the pictures!)

We’ve been having a great time and trying to get in as much of Zhengzhou (people and sights) as possible before the end of the year.

We will be returning to California in January. We are very excited! Lots of people to see and things to do. We will also be making a trip to Columbus in February. We’re hoping for a Disneyland trip for Maggie’s birthday on January 16th, so if you’re avail, prepare to set sail! (See what I did there? :-D )

We are back behind the Great Firewall of China (so many blocked websites), so if you were hoping to contact us via Facebook, please email us instead (maggiesulu (at) yahoo (dot) com). If you disregard this message, please be prepared that we probably won’t be able to reply to your message until after the New Year.

We’re looking forward to seeing all of your faces again soon!

Lots of Love,
Eric and Maggie

Happy Thanksgiving!

Eric and Maggie are wishing you a very happy Thanksgiving holiday. We celebrated with dinner at Pizza Hut — it’s fine dining in Zhengzhou!

No Facebook for us…

Dear family and friends,

Thankfully our blog is set up to automatically post to my Facebook wall, but we will be unable to access Facebook until … well, we just don’t know until when. There’s a political regime change happening here and the government is being much stricter with internet access.

If you need to get a hold of me (or Eric), you’re welcome to send me an email (maggiesulu), call (Skype: maggiesulu), or text message (www.wechatapp.com). The image included with this post is the QR code to add my username to your WeChat (if you’re so inclined). It’s actually a really neat app — it has a walkie-talkie-type feature.
(Ahem, Mom!)

Also, make sure that you’re following my on Instagram (www.instagram.com/maggiesulu) — I try to post pictures as often as possible.

I am also including a picture snapped today during my Reading class. We are reading Because of Winn-Dixie and there is a part where a man plays his guitar at a pet shop and it calms all the animals. So … I asked Eric if he would like to visit my class and play guitar for my students. They were so excited that they had to document the experience. My students are his China Groupies. :-)

I think autumn has passed us by and it is now officially winter. It’s 6:15 pm and currently 54 degrees F. I’m getting a new coat around Thanksgiving (one that properly fits!), so I’ll be warm and toasty. My windbreaker won’t cut it for much longer.

I always intend to include something about Chinese culture on this blog … Hot water is the cure-all for everything. Upset stomach? Drink hot water. Feel a cold coming on? Drink hot water. Headache? Drink hot water? Foot fungus? Drink hot water. Broke a nail? Drink hot water. Heat stroke? Drink hot water. (Okay, maybe not, but it wouldn’t surprise me.) I acclimated rather quickly to this habit — it helped that I moved here in the middle of winter. Now that we’re transitioning to winter again, I’m appreciating it all over. Bring on the hot water!

Lots of love,
Maggie

Rex & Magpie – 0; Shower – 2

Dear Family and Friends,

We have both managed to slip and fall in our shower. Separate times. Man, China is dangerous.

We are working on a much better update, but for now please enjoy the following picture of the newest member of our family, Gregor E. Cat!

Lots of Love,
Eric and Maggie

July 1st…omg!

Dear family and friends,

Finally a new update! The past couple months have been a bit of a roller coaster, but now things are settling into a wonderful groove, and I finally have the wherewithall (love this word) to compose an official update.

Eric is finally in China! He arrived Monday, May 14th after 36 hours of travel, mostly composed of layovers in Seoul and Beijing. He was supposed to arrive the night before, but his flight was delayed four hours. Of course, I didn’t find this out until the driver and I had already arrived at the airport for his original time. My four hours of waiting at an airport was worth it (and nothing compared to his layovers) once I finally saw his great big smiling (and tired) face.

Two days before Eric arrived, I moved into a new apartment. I now live at a mall. Okay, not actually in the mall, but the apartments above the 360 International mall in the central part of Zhengzhou. I love it! Close to everything we need and want, plus it’s a lovely stroll to work (or a nice short bus ride – two stops). Kylie, the hamster, and Victor E Cat survived the move and they are enjoying their new surroundings. Now if we could only figure out how to get the stove to work…

The day Eric arrived was also the first day of my second term teaching at ESLI. The first day was quite exhausting, but I survived. I have been enjoying everyday since. Some of my students have been a challenge, but nothing I cannot handle. Mostly it’s because of cultural differences (or I hope so), and I am very thankful to be having this learning experience.

I am filled with immense gratitude for the wonderful people and opportunities that have come into my life. Zhengzhou has been very good for and to me – I’m not sure I could ever leave! I could do without the stares (for being a foreigner) and the unsanctioned photographs, but since that’s the worst thing that has happened to me here, I am truly not going to complain. I am very blessed.

The included picture of Eric and I is from our first visit to the Henan Museum, which is walking distance from our apartment.

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The month of July is going to be quite busy and full of travel. I look forward to letting you know about about it!

Lots of love,
Maggie … and Eric!

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